I have been super blessed in my life, despite some very hard challenges. I am surrounded by the best of friends, one of which who lives with me, many who are still living back home in Cali, a few sprinkled across the U.S., and a handful that I have had the pleasure of meeting out here in Las Vegas; I have a wonderful, cooky family that has supported me emotionally with every decision I've made thus far, and have had many forms of inspiration come into my life. Denise has a heart bursting with ideas of cooking and traveling, both of which fuel my own desires of learning and seeing the world. She is also very artsy, which is the direction I'm getting to in this post. I have been fortunate enough to know some very talented artists, especially in the field of drawing - which is where I find myself when I put on that art cap (I would call myself a writer before an artist). I've also dabbled with charcoal, which is the medium I am using for my current project, a piece from a scene in my unfinished novel. I really enjoy using charcoal because it is messy and so full of possibilities; every stroke, purposefully or on accident, is a gateway to another way in which to bring one's original idea to life.
I bet right now you're wondering what my love life and my love of art have to do with each other. As I mentioned twice before, I've been blessed with knowing and coming to know some artsy, inspirational people. One of which is my boyfriend - or rather, "manfriend" as I call him, as he is a man, not a boy ;) His name is Rey (also my nickname from back home, spelled differently) and we met through our work in Las Vegas. There are many things I love about this man including all of our almost-creepy similarities, but here are three things I love about him most and that stick out to me right now: 1. I know it sounds cliché, but he honestly loves me for me; 2. He genuinely shines in our field of work, which emulates the kind of person he is - compassionate and with a heart of gold; and 3. He inspires me in my art. He is genuinely interested in my love of writing and drawing, and he requested one of our last hang outs to be an art session. Rey loves to water color paint. He loves to paint eyes and create characters from curvy, abstract lines. This past week I had the pleasure of watching him paint while I worked on my own piece, each stroke of his brush calculative and spontaneous at the same time. I didn't know where he was going with it at first but I knew somewhere behind those brown eyes that he did ... mostly. The beautiful thing about creating art is that the destination, which can be hinted in its skeletal form, is never completely known until the piece is finished. It's all about the journey there, that is what makes the piece so much fun to work on. Neither of us have finished our pieces yet, but I'm excited to be working with him. I've never really had the opportunity to actually work in that way with a significant other before, and the fact that we share a common interest in art - and, thankfully, so many other things - makes doing them together that much more fun and with little distraction from one another. We sat in his bathroom, the unofficial art studio, in verbal silence while our hands worked separately, allowing the melodies of Anthony Green, NIN's Ghost Album and some Circa Survive provide the tempo for our works. It was a purely lovely way to spend a Monday evening together doing something different from the norm, bonding and creating together in an unconventionally romantic way.
Here are some glimpses of what we have finished so far:
Do you have an idea of what it could be? |
Tools of the trade. |
Mine. |
Outlining. |
Hopefully we'll finish these pieces soon and then I will post the finished products for you guys to see. But for now, I shall leave you with a picture of my and my darling manfriend. He always puts a smile on my face <3
Staying creative for life,
Rae.
At New York New York ... I love you, babe <3 |